Friday, December 31, 2010

24 Weeks and Goodbye 2010!

I can't believe 2010 is over! This year has really flown by. We have been blessed with such an amazing year and I can't believe that we are having a baby boy in 2011. Truly a miracle. I keep thinking , "This time next year...." and everything we do will include a little one. Amazing. I can't wait to see what the new year brings!

On to the good stuff!

How Far Along - 24 weeks YAY! I have been waiting for this week because at 24 weeks there is viability. If for some reason Patrick decides to come early (Please don't) then he has a fighting chance. Patrick, listen when I say, you are staying there until April!
Size of Baby - He is 1 lb and 9 ounces. While I am glad he is growing, because that means he is healthy, he doesn't need to be HUGE. I still have to get him out! Slow down a little buddy! He is about a foot long, the size of an ear of corn.
What the baby can do this week- His brain is growing quickly and his taste buds are continuing to develop. His little lungs are developing branches of the respiratory system and cells that will help his lungs inflate once he hits the outside world.
Total Weight Gain - 11 pounds
Maternity Clothes - Yes! I have found a pair of tights that are so comfortable. I have a few long sweaters and shirts I can wear with them, and plan on finding more.
Gender - A baby boy!
Sleep - Still sleeping good.
What I Crave - Crumb cake...the kind you find at bakery's in Philly. YUMM
Symptoms - I think some Acid Reflux is kicking in. Is this normal? I hate it!
Baby Purchases - Blinds for his room (why there weren't any in there before, I guess we are just lazy!) Three Christmas books that were 50% off and Michael bought him a cute little onesie from Baby Gap



I hope that everyone has a very safe and happy New Year's celebration!

Thursday, December 30, 2010

Little Patrick in 3D

On Tuesday, we had another appointment with our high risk OBGYN. Lat time we went, the technician was NOT nice. I didn't know if she had a bad day or what, but we left with only one pictures, no explanation of anything. It was very impersonal and we were not happy.

When we went in on Tuesday, Michael specifically asked not to have her, and thankfully she wasn't in the office that day. Apparently she has had quite a few complaints against her. My question is, if this is true, why isn't anyone doing anything? To me, being a sonogram technician, especially in a high risk office where mothers and fathers are already upset because of certain problems they may have encountered, it is so important to be personable and try to set the patient at ease. We have to go three more times, so I hope she has off those days too!

We had an amazing technician this time. She commented on how great he looked, and how perfect his little heart was. Overall it was a great appointment and we are very happy to report that Patrick is a whopping 1 pound 9 ounces, and perfectly healthy. The Doc was a bit concerned with my levels on the 24 hour urine collection I did at 12 weeks, so I am going to do another one. I already knew I had to do two more, so I'm not overly concerned. Patrick is growing perfectly so I am happy!

We also were able to have a 3D ultrasound done. The pictures weren't the best because he wasn't positioned exactly right, and he needs to add some baby fat, but we did get a great picture of his little leg.
We also have one of him sucking his thumb and his little fingers covering up his face. Too cute! Hopefully when we go next month we can get a few better pictures of his face. Right now he kind of looks a little skeletal!

Wednesday, December 29, 2010

The ONLY Bowl Game that Matters



Today is the BIG day....the day East Carolina takes on the University of Maryland in the Military Bowl Game. This bowl game is so close to my house, but good tickets were hard to find, so instead (much to my dismay) I will be watching it from my family room on the big screen.

GO PIRATES!

Monday, December 27, 2010

One Spoiled Girl

Michael and I, knowing that this was our last Christmas alone, decided to spoil each other a bit. I didn't know just how spoiled I was going to be though. I was so surprised and excited to find these presents under our tree:

We have been looking at new cameras for awhile now. We have a pretty good Sony that we got for our honeymoon about four years ago, but it is kind of bulky and it takes forever to snap the actual picture. With Patrick on the way, we needed something that took GREAT pictures, was fast and I could easily transport. I love this camera so far. I took it outside for our first snow and took great pictures of Rocky and Michael playing. The pictures snapped fast, and only one was blurry. This is amazing since Rocky runs around like a complete crazy person in snow!We have the Dyson Animal vacuum and I LOVE it. I did NOT want to spend that kind of money on a vacuum, but since the minute I broke down and brought it home it has been worth EVERY penny. I had just vacuumed with our old vacuum, and wanted to still try out the Dyson....you should have seen the amount of hair I sucked up. With four animals, this vacuum has come in handy. When I saw they made a handheld, I almost fainted. It was a dream for this girl with OCD when it comes to cleaning the house. I used it the day I got it and LOVE it.

This present was technically for his parents and grandparents, but it doesn't matter! I am the only person in our house who drinks coffee, so making a pot every morning is quite ridiculous. I didn't even think about owning something like this, but now that I have it, I am in love. It only takes about 3 minutes to set up, not to mention with the little individual pods you use clean up is so easy. No coffee grinds everywhere! I received pods for coffee and hot chocolate. I can use my own coffee with the filter Michael got me, or I could just make hot tea and get hot water. I. Love. It.

And if that wasn't good enough, Christmas afternoon I was surprised with this beauty...
On our cruise this summer, my Mom got a ring similar to this but with a flower design in the blue diamond. She is a ring person, and has too many to count. I only have my wedding ring, and am not a big jewelry girl. I found this simple design on the boat and fell in love. I looked at it numerous times but couldn't commit myself. Instead I secretly hoped my husband would get the hint and get it for me instead. We returned home and I didn't think about it again. I left the room on Christmas day for a few minutes, and came back to a tin container on my seat. I had absolutely no clue. I knew from the box inside the tin that it was jewelry but had no idea this was inside. Needless to say, the surprise of it all and pregnancy hormones made me cry like a baby.

Michael received XBox and the Kinect, which he hinted about but I was adamant I was NOT buying it! He also got a watch he had been eying up and the Powermat and accessories for all of his gadgets. I also got a game for his Wii and then little goodies. I hope he liked everything I got for him after seeing how much I was spoiled!

I know Christmas is definitely not all about the presents, and I am so thankful that I could spend it with my amazing husband and family, but the goodies did not hurt! I am enjoying every minute because next year it is all about Patrick!

Sunday, December 26, 2010

Snow, Snow, SNOW!

So apparently we are supposed to get between 6 and 12 inches of snow between now and Monday morning. I will believe that when I see it! I do love snow, but why couldn't we get this when we are IN school so I can have off instead. Right now I have off, and I would love to head out for some after Christmas shopping with my gift cards and maybe catch a movie with the husband. Geez! I will drive in the snow, it really isn't that bad, but my husband doesn't like it. He worries about everyone else. I do agree there are some complete idiots who can't drive in snow and should STAY HOME!

I hope everyone had a very Merry Christmas. I was completely spoiled. I will have to post about all my goodies I received later this week. I am one lucky girl!

Saturday, December 25, 2010

Merry Christmas

This is our last Christmas with just Michael and I. I have to say we spoiled each other a bit (at least he says he spoiled me, and I KNOW I spoiled him). Next year, Patrick will be spoiled instead. This year I am very thankful for all of our blessings. Words cannot explain how happy I am that we have been blessed with a little boy on the way, my husband is home, we are happy and healthy and surrounded by wonderful friends and family. I couldn't ask for more.

Make sure you take the time today to think of those who cannot be with their families, but instead are serving overseas. It is because of them that we can sit and enjoy our Christmas without fear. They and their families will not be able to share Christmas dinner, or open presents by the fire. Say a prayer to keep them safe, and give them strength to get through their time apart.

I hope everyone has a very Merry Christmas!

Friday, December 24, 2010

23 Weeks

How Far Along - 23 weeks
Size of Baby - A large mango. He is about 11 inches long and weighs just over a pound. We will have a move accurate reading on Tuesday when we go for his growth ultrasound. I can't wait!
What the baby can do this week- He has a sense of movement, so no more rollar coasters for me! HA. Blood vessels in his lungs are preparing for him to start breathing and the sounds that he hears is preparing him for the outside world. Apparently if he hear the dog bark now, or vacuum run, he is less likely to be startled by it when he comes out.
Total Weight Gain - I gained 2 pounds this month which brings my total up to 11 pounds. The Doc seemed good with this, so I am too. We will see just how it goes over Christmas though! At first when he asked how much I gained and I told him 11, he thought I meant THIS month! Could you imagine?
Maternity Clothes - Still just the pants. I have three tops, but my regular tops still fit. I am going to miss shopping at J.Crew this break :( I always use my gift cards to head to the outlets to score some great deals. Oh well. Next year!
Gender - A baby boy!
Sleep - Back to sleeping very well! I equate this to my stress level going down between classes being finished and being out on break.
What I Crave - Crumb cake...the kind you find at bakery's in Philly. YUMM
Symptoms - He is kicking more and more, and of course the belly is getting bigger! I think I may have some heartburn, but I am not quite sure what it feels like, so I'm not certain.
Baby Purchases - We received the bedding and mobile this week, and we registered yesterday! It was so overwhelming in that store. We still have to register at Target because that is a little closer to where we are. I'm not sure if people are willing to drive an hour to Babies R Us, so we are doing both.

Have a wonderful Christmas!

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Welcome and Advice Needed

Christmas Break! I have waited for you since Thanksgiving break! As of 2:45 today I am on vacation until 6:30 on January 3. I would say I can't wait to sleep in, but we have a Dr's appointment tomorrow morning at 8:15 to hear our little Patrick again. Well worth it!

I also received the bedding today and mobile. At first the mobile didn't work, but since I am persistent and refuse to deal with shipping things back, I finally figured it out and it is now playing music AND turning! Tomorrow after our Dr's appointment we are going to register. I am so excited! Any advice? What is the ONE thing you think I HAVE to register for?

Monday, December 20, 2010

Let the Countdown Begin!

Only two days left until the much needed/anticipated Winter break begins. I will have 11 glorious days of absolutely nothing to do. Except registering for little Patrick and having a sonogram. Who can complain about that?

After today I am ready for this break to begin. I got into a little argument with a fellow teacher. He has been getting on my nerves lately (long story short, he doesn't actually teach and still gets away with it-nice). Well today he SCREAMED at my students, which I immediately told him to stop. After school we got into it, and he had the nerve to say that he shouldn't have to 'handle' my kids. Let's just say my pregnancy hormones kicked into full rage. Needless to say, I could go without seeing him the next 2 days, but I digress.

The kids were actually very good today. We did a little holiday craft and I still got some quality teaching in. Shocking! Tomorrow will be another day full of actual lessons and then I think Wednesday will be a wash between assemblies and our holiday party, but we will see. Of course, the kids may have different plans.

My shopping is almost all finished. I need one more present for my Pop and one for my SIL. With my SIL we have a limit of $25, and I have NO IDEA what to get her. My brother is happy with a gift card from Wawa, but I'm not sure what to do about her. I better make up my mind - only 4 shopping days to go!

Friday, December 17, 2010

22 Weeks

Moving right along! I feel him more and more and everyday and am loving it!

How Far Along - 22 weeks
Size of Baby - The size of a spaghetti squash (I have no idea what that is!) About a pound and almost 11 inches long!
What the baby can do this week- His eyes have formed, but the irises still lack color. He looks kind of like a miniature newborn...everything is the same as it will be in 18 more weeks! His pancreas is also developing.
Total Weight Gain - 9 pounds. Time to start walking more! (As of two weeks ago) I go again to the Doctor next Thursday so we will see!
Maternity Clothes - Jeans! I love the maternity jeans. They are so comfortable.
Gender - A baby boy!
Sleep - Haven't been sleeping very well, but I equate that to some stress with school and the end of classes.
What I Crave - Crumb cake...the kind you find at bakery's in Philly. YUMM
Symptoms - He is kicking more and more, and of course the belly is getting bigger!
Baby Purchases - I ordered the bedding today. I hope I like it in person since it took me about four forevers to pick out. I really didn't want a theme, just colors but I couldn't find anything I liked. I picked out one that has the colors I like with a monkey, lion and elephant. It's just one of each, and instead of buying all of the accessories, I am going to get just plain colored pillows and window treatments. I don't want to be overwhelmed with monkeys! Keep your fingers crossed!

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Snow!

I love snow, but I think Rocky loves it more!

It started snowing around 12 pm today (as if my students weren't crazy enough!) We have about an inch so far. I doubt we get anymore and I am sure we will have school tomorrow, but I could always use a two hour delay!

Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Now to Deal with the Kids...

So I am officially finished my classes for the block! I survived taking two and teaching one. I still have to grade my students final papers, and input final grades, but everything else is finished. Now I just have to deal with getting the kids through one more week of school. Lord help me!

They are already on vacation in their little minds, but I keep trying to convince them that I do still have things to teach! It's getting harder every day. It got even harder the other day when it started snowing. Let's hope that doesn't happen again before break!

School is a very interesting place to be right now. Between building a new elementary school, and possibly having to switch schools, I feel like everyone is constantly trying to guess what the administration is thinking and planning their next move. It feels like a giant game of survivor as we try to figure out who we would want to work with, and how to best plan our next move. It's exhausting. I wish I could just have a crystal ball to find out what school I will be in and what grade I will be teaching. For someone who likes having control, this situation is a nightmare.

Not only that but just today I found out that a teacher was written up for something that she posted on Facebook. To me, she did say anything wrong. No students or administration was named, she was venting about a situation. First of all....how did they see what she wrote (I am guessing someone saw it and reported it) and secondly, if that's the case, WHO WOULD DO THAT? We are all teachers. We all know how frustrating everything is right now between Race to the Top and some schools being under review. Aren't we supposed to be on the same side? If they have time to look at Facebook statuses then we have a problem.

So, even though situations at work are very frustrating right now, and the kids are getting crazier and crazier, I have to look on the bright side. The rest of the nights this week are filled with Christmas parties, our growing baby is healthy, and I may even get my car back this week! Things could always be worse.

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

LAST CLASS!

Ok, so not the class I am taking, that's tomorrow night. But tonight is the last night for the class I am teaching. YAY! All of their papers are due by tomorrow so hopefully I can have it all graded and finished before the weekend. And most importantly I should get PAID next week sometime.

Let's hope this time when I am driving home I can avoid the deer. Of course, with a prediction of a wind chill in the teens or below, I am guessing they won't leave their home. At least I hope they don't!

Friday, December 10, 2010

21 Weeks

More then halfway there now! Time is going by so fast!

How Far Along
- 21 weeks
Size of Baby - The size of a carrot! Almost 3/4 of a pound (according to measurements last week he is a little bigger) and about 10 1/2 inches long.
What the baby can do this week- Move more and more. I can feel him a lot more and sometimes he kicks so hard I can feel it on the outside too. His eyelids are and eyebrows are present now too.
Total Weight Gain - 9 pounds. Time to start walking more! (As of last week)
Maternity Clothes - Jeans! I love the maternity jeans. They are so comfortable.
Gender - A baby boy!
Sleep - Sleeping pretty good right now. I am still getting up to use the bathroom but I am so tired I go right back to sleep.
What I Crave - Crumb cake...the kind you find at bakery's in Philly. YUMM
Symptoms - He is kicking more and more, and of course the belly is getting bigger!
Baby Purchases - I did buy little baby socks last night. They were so darn cute!

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

When is Break?

So we are almost halfway through our loooonnngggg three and a half weeks of school before Winter Break. The kids are driving me crazy (which doesn't help because I can't have my wine) and I am exhausted. Who would ever schedule us for three full weeks of school, and then three days the week of Christmas? Clearly they have no idea what children are like before the holiday!

Pray for me.

Meanwhile, the classes I am taking are almost over! Only one week left for the two I am taking and the one I am teaching. Teaching really wasn't that bad! I have had a really good class, so I have nothing to complain about. It is nice getting that pay check I must admit. I won't be teaching it for a few blocks, but they have asked me to design two distance learning classes when I get paid to do. The good thing is whoever designs them has to teach them. Therefore that would be moi! Which means I get paid to design and to teach eventually, AND it's all online. Bonus. I can earn money while still spending time with little Patrick. YAY!!

I can't decide if I am going to take another class or not. I want to so I can get it out of the way before the little one comes, but I don't feel like paying for it. What do you think?

Friday, December 3, 2010

Halfway There!

Today is great...Friday, payday and halfway to meeting little Patrick! Our little Bambino this week is about 13 ounces (according to Doc's measurements yesterday) and 6 1/2 inches long. He is swallowing more and producing meconium (the lovely present he will leave in his diaper once he is born!).

How Far Along - 20 weeks
Size of Baby -A banana...The Doc said he is about 13 ounces! Almost 1 lb!
What the baby can do this week- Poop
Total Weight Gain - 9 pounds. Time to start walking more!
Maternity Clothes - Jeans! I love the maternity jeans. They are so comfortable.
Gender - A baby boy!
Sleep - I am tired. Between crazy kids before Christmas break and my classes I am one tired girl. When I do lay down I think about all of the things I need to do...grade papers, set up appointments, save more money, clean the house, etc. It's quite annoying.
What I Crave - Orange Juice and cereal....not together.
Symptoms - He is kicking more and more, and of course the belly is getting bigger!
Baby Purchases - None, unless you count the Labor and childbirth classes we signed up for.

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Drumroll Please....

We are having a.....







little.......












We are so excited! James Patrick (we're going to call him Patrick, yes I know, confusing, deal with it!) is measuring perfectly and all organs are working well!

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Slackers

I love my job. I bust my ass, and I hate paperwork and all of the extra duties that teachers are expected to do, but I love the kids. I love seeing their eyes light up when they learn something new. It really is amazing.

I also love some of the people I work with. It is nice to be able to vent to each other, enjoy each other's company outside of work and just having fun with one another. I have been blessed with working with an amazing group of teachers for the past 5 years. Now, with the building of a new school, all of that will change, but that's for a different, longer post.

Although I love most of the people I work with, there are some that I could do without. There are those who don't plan, don't really grade anything, don't really do much throughout the day but claim they 'teach.' Yes, I know this is shocking, but it happens. I work so hard at my job, long hours planning and coming up with activities, grading and by the end of the day I am exhausted.

My Dad says I can't worry about others, and I agree. But this doesn't stop me from resenting the fact that I bust my ass every single day, while there are some that don't do anything and yet they get outstanding reviews and people actually think they do good! I keep waiting for the cover to be blown, but 7 years in and it hasn't. It is just amazing to me!

I know I can't worry about this, but I can't help it. It doesn't just annoy me, but what about the kids? How do I deal with this without wanting to say things that I would probably regret? I am friends with one individual, but the more I am around them, the more I resent them. I am sure they can probably tell, but I am just so sick of it. Help!

Monday, November 29, 2010

Appointment Update

So we visited the Doctor today. I have gained 9 pounds total :( A HUGE jump from last month. I guess I made up for practically no weight gain in the first trimester. Time to start eating better and walking more! My blood pressure was down to normal, finally - 118/79. YAY!

Overall, a good appointment!

Saturday, November 27, 2010

By Demand...



The Belly picture....at 19 weeks!

Friday, November 26, 2010

19 Weeks

19 weeks, almost halfway there! This week our little one's brain is designating areas for smell, taste, hearing, vision and touch. His arms and legs are finally in proportion to the rest of his body, and hair is sprouting on his head.

How Far Along - 19 weeks
Size of Baby -An heirloom tomato...6 inches and 8 1/2 ounces
What the baby can do this week- Pee!
Total Weight Gain - I will know on Monday....guessing about 4 lbs?
Maternity Clothes - Jeans! I love the maternity jeans. They are so comfortable.
Gender - We found out after the Bambi run in! I will let everyone know next week after we get a second confirmation, even though I am pretty sure we don't need it!
Sleep - Not as bad as last week, I think I figured out how to best prop up the pillow so my stomach doesn't ache as much. I still have to use the restroom in the middle of the night which is quite annoying!
What I Crave - Orange Juice and cereal....not together.
Symptoms - My belly is starting to get bigger! I also can feel the little one moving a lot! He is a very active baby so far, mainly around 3 in the morning! Luckily he isn't big enough to wake me up with his kicks. I keep trying to get Michael to feel, but everytime I call him over, the baby stops. Someday!
Baby Purchases - When we found out what we were having, we bought a little outfit to tell the grandparents. I am excited to start registering though!

Thursday, November 25, 2010

Thankful!

Happy Thanksgiving everyone! Although this is a day to give thanks, I have to admit I find myself doing it more then just one day a year these days.

I have so much to be thankful for. An amazing husband, who is more caring and loving then I could have ever asked for. I am so happy to share another holiday with him, HOME. Since the Bambi run in on Tuesday, he has taken care of everything, from contacting the police, to the insurance to dealing with the rental car. He even made sure the car got to the auto body shop, and cleaned out all of my things while I took a nap at home. He must have known I needed it after I couldn't sleep the night before because of images of Bambi's face as I hit her. :( I can't wait to see him with our little one when he gets here. He will be an amazing father.

I am thankful for my wonderful friends. There were there while Michael was away, and I couldn't have done it without their support and love. Even though we are far apart and don't talk every day, I know they will always be there for me. Now if only I could convince some of them to move North!

My family. They are amazing. We all get along so well, and I have the best parents anyone can ask for. I have people who come up to me to tell me how great they are! I only hope to be half as good as they have been to my brother and I.

My job. Yes there are days where I feel like smacking some people, but overall I love it. In this economy, I am glad to have a steady income and be able to have a roof over my head and food on the table.

My 'kids.' Rocky, Titan, Remy and Jroll. Yes, we have a zoo, but I wouldn't have it any other way. They are always excited to see us when we get home, and know when their Momma just needs a cuddle. I love them even if they do drive me crazy some days.

Of course, our little one on the way. After the accident, I realized just how much I love the little one even though he isn't here yet. When they couldn't find his heartbeat I almost had a melt down, but in my heart I knew he was still in there. Every time I see him I am amazed that my husband and I created something so tiny. I can't wait until April!

I hope everyone has a wonderful and happy Thanksgiving. As you sit around your table tonight, remember those soldiers who are still overseas away from their families. Say a prayer for them!

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

I Hate Bambi!

I was the one who always felt sorry for the deer during hunting season, or when I saw one lying on the side of the road after being hit by a car.

Not anymore.

Last night, after teaching my second class (which I survived!) I was on my way home. I completely forgot that we live in an area with a high deer population. I was minding my own business, having just stopped for dinner, when Bambi and a friend decided to try to cross the busy highway. Needless to say, Bambi got hit....hard. Then got hit about 4 more times by other cars.

In a state of shock I was able to find the flashers in the car (after turning on the windshield wipers amongst other things) and get out of the car into the median in the event that another car were to hit me. My husband was panicking (rightfully so since he heard me hit it....no need to lecture about talking on the phone, thanks.) and wanted to make sure I was ok. The airbag never went over, and I was able to break a decent amount before impact. I felt fine and didn't have any belly pain.

Meanwhile, Bambi's little friend tried to come BACK across the road, probably to seek revenge on me, and ended up getting hit by a car too. In total, three vehicles were involved, two deer hit. Insane. I ended up going to the hospital after I called my OBGYN (who happened to be on call anyway, thank goodness) just to get the baby checked out. Once they cleared me in the ER, I headed to Labor and Delivery to get a sonogram.

I have to say, although I was shaken, I was very excited to see the little one again! Everything was fine, heartrate was 155, and he was moving everywhere! I could definitely feel him. Not only did we get some good pictures again, but we also got to see something a little extra!

I won't reveal on here yet, but soon, don't worry! I need to make sure close friends and family know first otherwise I will never hear the end of it.

After a very exciting night, my Thanksgiving break can FINALLY begin...even if I won't have my car for awhile :( Poor Elly the Equinox. Elly can be replaced, thankfully myself and the little one are just fine. Another thing to be thankful for this holiday!

Friday, November 19, 2010

18 Weeks

Another week down! More importantly only two full working days until Thanksgiving break. YAY!!

On to the good stuff.....

How Far Along
- 18 weeks
Size of Baby -A bell pepper 5 1/2 inches and about 7 ounces
What the baby can do this week- He/she can yawn! How cute!
Total Weight Gain - Still haven't gotten on the scale....don't want to!
Maternity Clothes - I did buy some jeans today because I was tired of the belly band and seeing the button stick out because it wasn't buttoned! I also got a new top. I was afraid because the jeans are stretch jeans and I HATE stretch jeans, but I LOVE them!
Gender - Still no clue, will know on December 2 - if the baby cooperates!
Sleep - My stomach is sore in the morning, and especially when I flip over. I need to do a better job of propping the stomach up apparently!
What I Crave - Well, my husband surprised me and made the chocolate chip cookies which were AWESOME! Orange Juice is is a big winner, but I really want a margarita! That isn't happening anytime soon!
Symptoms - My belly is starting to get bigger - I actually had another person notice!
Baby Purchases - None! Except my maternity clothes. Give me two weeks when I know what the baby is, this will all change!

Thursday, November 18, 2010

End of Season

Today, our hockey season is officially over. We had out end of the year banquet, and I have to say I was pretty sad to say goodbye to some of our Seniors. I have been with these girls since they were Freshmen, so it was definitely bitter sweet.

The absolute best part though, besides the food, was the present they gave the coaches....a gift certificate to get a massage. It is amazing and I can't wait to use it!




On another note, our teachers enjoyed a stress free afternoon of bowling! We have done this before, and it's a great time....beer and laughter. Of course I can't have the beer, but I can still have fun. I bowled a 108 the first game and a 183 the second game. My personal best. I still don't know how I did it. My Mom said it was because I wasn't drinking for once. HA!

Friday, November 12, 2010

17 Weeks

Yay! Finally on time! I am exactly 17 weeks today. The baby is now the size of a turnip...5 inches long and about 5 ounces. His soft cartilage is changing to hard bone and he can move his joints!

How Far Along - 17 weeks
Size of Baby -A turnip
Total Weight Gain - I am going to be honest, I have not stepped on the scale. I have always gone by the Doc's scale, so I will just wait two more weeks - right after Thanksgiving. That should turn out well!
Maternity Clothes - I must admit that I did wear maternity pants that my Mom got me the other day. I really am not that big yet, but they are just so darn comfortable. I am still in the stage if people wonder if I am fat or just pregnant. Ahhhh
Gender - Still no clue, will know on December 2 - if the baby cooperates!
Sleep - My stomach is starting to hurt when I lay on my side for awhile and then switch to another side. I really need to get a body pillow this weekend.
What I Crave - Still the homemade chocolate chip cookies (I have yet to make them!) Any volunteers? I just can't get the motivation!
Symptoms - My belly is starting to get bigger - not too much but I can tell
and so can Michael. My boobs are also bordering on porn star status, and I am told they are only going to get bigger. I see a lift and reduction in my future! I am still tired a bit, but I am feeling pretty good right now! Apparently the second trimester is when women feel the best, so I should live it up!
Baby Purchases - None this week; well maybe black out blinds for the baby room. The room has never had blinds, and it really needs it! Plus there is a sale this weekend - bonus! There is also a Phillies shirt for ME that I am thinking about getting (HINT CHRISTMAS MICHAEL HINT)Love it!

Thursday, November 11, 2010

Veterans Day

Even though we are reminded of Veterans Day everyday in our household, today is that day that everyone normally says it aloud. Thank you.

Words cannot express the amount of gratitude that we owe those who have served both at home and overseas. I don't know if everyone (besides military families) truly grasp the amount of dedication these people and their families have, or exactly what they have to go through.

Today, take 30 seconds and remember those who have have served, those still serving, and those who have made the ultimate sacrifice.

My husband is truly my hero. 3



On a complete side note, I survived my first teaching class!

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

First Class

No, I am not taking my fist Master's class (if you know anything about me, you know I am well past that. I am kind of an overachiever.) However, I am teaching my first one tonight.

I. Am. Terrified.

First of all, I HATE standing up in front of people. Of course, when I say this, people then ask how I can teach. Well, they are 9 years old. Anyone can stand up in front of 9 year olds! These students are my age or older....with the majority being older. I am afraid they are going to think I am too young to be teaching, and I have no idea what I am talking about.

I have no idea why my professor thought I would be a good candidate to do this. I mean, I can write a paper and turn in work on time, sure. She said I had a 'good work ethic' and my work was 'outstanding.' Ok, great, but to teach a Master's class?

I originally said yes because it was my understanding it was a completely online class. Well that changed, and now I have to teach 3 face to face and the rest is online.

Tonight is my first face to face, and I am praying I don't throw up or pass out. Pray for me!

Monday, November 8, 2010

Wow

So I teach my first class tomorrow night and I am nervous! But besides that, my students have turned in their first assignments. A one page reflection paper about a learning experience they had that didn't go well. There was a rubric, and it was EASY.

I cannot tell you how many students got points off because they didn't follow the rubric. Absolutely ridiculous. I mean really. If you can't follow a rubric, then I really can't help you!

I hope this isn't a sign of things to come!

Saturday, November 6, 2010

16 Weeks

And 1 day....I just can't seem to get it together enough to post on Fridays! Here is the run down for the week:

How Far Along - 16 weeks (and 1 day)
Size of Baby - An avocado (Going to be honest, I have no idea what one looks like)
4 1/2 inches long and 3 1/2 ounces
Total Weight Gain - As of last week, 1.5 pounds
Maternity Clothes - Not yet! I have bought a belly band that lets me unbutton my pants and still wear my normal clothes. What a great invention! My mom did buy me some
tops to wear for later. She knows I am dreading spending money on clothes I
will only wear for a little while.
Gender - Still no clue, will know on December 2 - if the baby cooperates!
Sleep - Can't complain here. I am still sleeping pretty well besides getting up in the middle of the
night to use the restroom. I cannot explain how annoying that is! I have been having
some crazy dreams though, including one where I gave birth to a cat that looks like JRoll.
WTF?
What I Crave - Nothing really. It's weird. Normally I can think about dinner (pre-pregnancy)
and think of something I HAVE to have. Now, nothing sticks out and no matter
what my husband suggests it just doesn't seem like that's what I REALLY want. I
could use some chocolate chip cookies (homemade) right now though!
Symptoms - None really. I was tried before baby, so I am just as tired now. Not as bad as I was in the beginning though. My belly is starting to get bigger - not too much but I can tell
and so can Michael. I can't wait until I get out of the stage where people wonder,
and they just know!
Baby Purchases - So far we have gotten a Chase Utley shirt (of course!), a little soft rattle that
goes with my favorite book, "Guess How Much I Love You." That's about it. I
am waiting until we find out what it is before we really start looking! Once we
find out, we will register too.

Have a great weekend!

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Some People

The things that come out of some people's mouth is absolutely insane to me sometimes. This morning, I was doing hall duty in my normal post, leaning up against a doorway with my back to a stairwell. A teacher who is across the hall was coming up the stairs (3 minutes AFTER the bell rang, which would make her 13 minutes later, but I guess she can do whatever she wants!). She leans in as she walks by and says, "Ya know, you can really tell you are pregnant from the back now!"

W.T.F. Is that supposed to mean?

News flash lady, I have only gained 1.5 lbs.

Suck it.

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Election Day!

I love election day for numerous reasons, and enacting my right as a citizen and voting has NOTHING to do with it!

Number one, there will be no more stupid political ads on TV, flyers in the mail, or phone calls to my house asking me to vote for so-and-so. More importantly, Christine O'Donnell, who is most certainly NOT ME, will be a distant memory (or hopefully anyway!) If you haven't heard about Christine O'Donnell, then look it up on YouTube. SNL did a pretty funny sketch. Between the Vice President and her, people must think Delaware is a bunch of crazies.

Number two, and the most important, we off from school! That's right, here in tiny Delaware schools are used as polling places, and therefore, we MUST have off! My husband got up, took the dogs out, let me sleep, and went and got us breakfast. Great start to the day I must say!

Not only do we have off today, but there is a tradition in Delaware where all people who ran for office 'bury the hatchet' so to speak. There is a parade and parties which of course amount to us having a half day Thursday! Love it.

Even though I have off, today will be busy. I have a dentist appointment at 11:30 (yay!), getting some things done on my car at 1, and our LAST field hockey game is this afternoon. Just in time, because I had my first class last night!

Even though Election Day is wonderful for teachers, I guess I should go vote too! YOU TOO!

Sunday, October 31, 2010

15 Weeks

Ok, I don't want this blog to be completely consumed by the baby, I want it to be about our life, which also includes my husband, work, our 'kids' of the four legged kind and things we do together. However, my life has been so busy recently I haven't had time to update about anything.

School has been insane lately. Between our Race to the Top Grant we won, all of the extra BS, crazy kids and of course field hockey, I feel like I hardly have time to breath. Michael has had class on Monday nights, I have games Tuesday and Thursdays, he has games Wednesday and Friday, you figure out when we can see each other!

Luckily, things are starting to relax a bit. Hockey will be over on Tuesday (with the way the girls played there is no way we are making the tournament, I hate to say I am relieved, but also very disappointed). Football is also winding down for Michael.

I would say I might actually start to see him, but my classes for Block 2 start his week. If you didn't think I was crazy before, you will now. I have class Monday night, which meets every week, I teach a class Tuesday nights - which we only meet three times, and I take another class Wednesday night - which only meets three times. The rest of those classes is online. Not too bed, but I am sure the next 7 weeks will be very interesting!

Me being an overachiever again, but after this 7 weeks I will have my Master's +30. It will probably be the last classes I get in before the baby. Remember I wanted to do as much as possible before the little one came along? Well I will have 3 more classes and an internship (I think) until I have my FINAL degree. I may try to squeeze one more in during Block 1 in the Spring. I just know once our little pumpkin comes along I think it will be hard to leave him/her. Of course, I may need a night out too! Even if it is to class! Only time will tell.

Ok, I have rambled on long enough - back to the topic.

Today I am 15 weeks and 2 days. We had a Doctor's appointment on Friday and everything is still going well. My BP went down a bit, enough to impress me, but not the Doctor. Oh well. The Bambino is still doing well. His/Her heartrate was in the 160's again, adn the Doctor said I was 'definitely pregnant,' whatever that means! I have gained 1.5 lbs total - I'll take it!

According to babycenter.com, the baby is about 4 inches long, and weighs around 2.5 ounces. Her legs are finally catching up to the rest of her body, and she can move all of her joints and limbs. Apparently if I shine a flashlight on my stomach, she will move away from the light. Interesting! We could also technically find out if it is a boy or girl this week, but we are waiting until December. I am not very patient!

It is very exciting! And if that wasn't exciting enough, we have off of school on Tuesday for Election Day, and a half day on Thursday! I sense it is going to be a great week!

Sunday, October 24, 2010

14 Weeks

Ok, 14 weeks and 2 days now, but close enough!

This week, the baby is about the size of a lemon! I can't believe a lemon is in my stomach somewhere. How weird?! The baby can now squint, frown, pee and even suck his thumb. His little body is finally growing faster then his head, and by the end of the week his arms will be in proportion with the rest of his body. I can't believe how fast he is actually growing.

We have a Doctor's appointment on Friday. I love having these appoints because I can see or hear the heartbeat and it makes me feel better since I can't feel him moving yet, but I still hate waiting. I think if my BP is up this time, I am going to say something about making me wait so long. I mean really, who waits 45 minutes to have a finger prick done?

Meanwhile, we set the appointment to find out the sex of the baby! On December 2, I have to have a Level 2 ultrasound down, and the lady told me that we can find out then, since I will be around 20 weeks - as long as the little pumpkin cooperates!

I am still feeling good. My normal clothes still fit, but I did have to break down and buy a belly band. Basically it is a stretch piece of fabric that lets me unbutton my pants and still wear them. I had to! My dress pants for work were starting to hurt my stomach when I sat down! Ahhhh.

Have a great week! I, will be mourning my Phillies loss and looking forward to our Friday appointment!

Monday, October 18, 2010

I Need to Spend Money

No, I really don't, but I want to. Ok, even that is probably wrong, I really don't want to, but I am going to....eventually.

Let me get to the point. Even before we knew we had a baby on board, Michael and I had discussed getting a new camera. We have a Sony cybershot that we bought three years ago to take on our honeymoon. When we first bought it, we l.o.v.e.d. it! It worked fabulously and took great pictures. It still takes great pictures, but it has been taking forever to actually take the picture. I thought I messed it up somehow by messing with the settings, but even with Michael returning it to factory settings (how does he find out how to do this stuff??) it still takes forever, and we end up missing shots. It is quite annoying.

Now that there is a bambino on the way, I need a new camera even more. I don't want to miss ANY pictures, and I want a camera that takes amazing ones. I have narrowed it down to a Nikon and Canon, but can't decide. I am also annoyed because two I am looking at have batteries. Cameras still have batteries? The last camera I had with batteries died so quickly and left me scrambling to purchase new ones while I was out. I have found a Canon that has a rechargeable battery but it more expensive.

I am looking for suggestions and advice. If I spend more money is it really going to take better pictures? Which brand is better, in your experience, Nikon or Canon?

Help!!!

Friday, October 15, 2010

13 Weeks

Well, the little munchkin is at 13 weeks and is roughly 2 inches long, and weighs....well, hardly anything! This week, the baby has fingerprints and his body is finally catching up with his head. I have to say, in the ultrasound, his big head did take up a majority of the picture. I guess he takes after his Dad! (Love you Michael.)

I am still feeling great! I still can't tell if my stomach is actually getting bigger or not. Every week I swear this is the week that I will notice a difference in the picture because I definitely feel bigger, at least by the end of the day. Then we take the picture, and my sweet husband says, "Yes, you can tell now!" Of course, when I go back and compare from the previous week I can't tell a damn thing! Ahhh. Everyone has told me enjoy it, because before you know it I won't be able to see anything south of the border! As long as the baby is healthy and growing, I don't care!

Because of my high blood pressure at my Dr's visits, I have the pleasure of peeing in a jug and collecting all of it for 24 hours! I am sure my husband will love opening the refrigerator and seeing that on Sunday! HA. Oh the joys of pregnancy!

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Surreal

Until yesterday, I don't think I truly believed that in 6 months we would have a baby. Of course, I hoped, but my Type A personality constantly thought of things that could go wrong. With it being so early, there is no way to tell if everything is ok. I also haven't had ANY morning sickness (I know, you can slap me later!). Honestly it worried me! I had read that morning sickness is a sign of a healthy pregnancy (I need to stop reading).

Two weeks ago, we got to hear the heartbeat, which put my mind at ease a little, and then yesterday we got those gorgeous pictures. It was the craziest, most exciting, and happy moment. My husband was up out of his chair looking at the monitor (It was very cute!) The baby will be 14 weeks on Friday so I feel much better being at the very end of the first trimester. The little one measured perfectly, and even bounced around a little, but otherwise sat very still for his picture. The technician talked about how he was such a good baby! (I say he because it's just easier, we actually have no idea!) The heartrate was nice and healthy at 163. Just amazing.

I have felt great, but my blood pressure at the Dr. hasn't been so hot. I blame it on the office. I wait 45 minutes, at least, every time I have an appointment. That's enough to make anyone's BP rise. The last time it was high because we were going to hear the heartbeat. My Type A personality was panicking, afraid we wouldn't hear on, so of course, high again. If they had taken it afterwards, I swear it would have been fine. And last time, it was high because I was worried it would be high. I knew if it was I would be in a bit of trouble. It was 137 over 87. Not super high, but not very good. Plus it's my FIRST pregnancy, I have NO idea what to expect!

Long story short, I am now classified as 'High Risk' because of it. I really don't think I have high BP because I feel great, no headaches or any symptoms. At least a good thing comes out of it - I get to have Level II ultrasounds which apparently are great. AND, they got done every 2 weeks so I get to see the little one more. I still worry about it growing properly and on schedule, but so far, he looks perfect. I guess I just need to relax and let things happen.

We go back in two weeks and get to hear the heartbeat again, and then I will have a sonogram shortly after. I can't wait to see him/her again!

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Sweet Delivery!

So the Easter bunny will be bringing more then just candy this year! We are so excited!


Sunday, October 3, 2010

Pumpking Picking!

Yesterday, my Mom and I went to a local orchard and picked pumpkins! I cannot believe that I have never been to pick pumpkins. I have always just run to Wal-Mart of a local stand and gotten them. I have to say that I will definitely be doing it every year. It was so much fun, even if the stems are a little pricklier then I thought! Not to mention the great picture opportunities. When we have kids we are definitely taking them there and plopping them in between pumpkins!

After picking our pumpkins, we went to the store on site and got fresh apples, pumpkin and apple cider donuts (which are to die for!) and little baby pumpkins. On Saturdays, they have live bands, hay rides, and face painting for the kids. It really was a lot of fun, even for this 26 year old! Now my house has mums in front and bales of hay with pumpkins. I am definitely ready for fall!

Thursday, September 30, 2010

One Year

One year ago today, my wonderful husband marched in formation onto the Green and back into my arms. It was one of the hardest years of my life (I am assuming his too!), but I am thankful for it. I feel much stronger and closer to him then I did before. I try to not take anything for granted and remember that everything isn't such a big deal (like the dishes he leaves out all.the.time.) I said TRY :)

I am very thankful to have him home, safe. I still wake up every morning, so happy to have him next to me to snuggle.

Monday, September 27, 2010

I Did it Again!

I brought home papers to grade and some work to do, and where do you think it is? Still in my bag, which didn't even make it in the HOUSE!

I don't know what it is, but I just can't do work at home. I always made a promise to myself and my marriage that I wouldn't bring work home. I would spend every spare minute at school grading papers and finishing paperwork, but if it wasn't done at the end of the day, then too bad. It will still be there tomorrow.

My husband and I are two very busy people. Not only do we both teach, but we both coach sports and Michael has the Guard. We barely get to eat together between games and classes we take. This week, for example, the only night we will be able to actually cook dinner is Wednesday! He has class tonight, I have a game tomorrow, he has a game Wednesday, I have another game Thursday, and he has one on Friday, and then drill on the weekend. Wait, I just said he has a game on Wednesday. I guess that rules out that day too! It's very frustrating.

Because we normally leave the house by 7, and don't get home until 7:30, or sometimes later, the little time we do spend together needs to be actually spent together. I think that's why I never bring work home. I don't think it would be fair to him if I sat and did work all night. We need that time together even if it's just 10 minutes before we fall asleep at night.

My fellow teachers are always amazed that I don't take anything home, but to me, it isn't worth it. My family is much more important. Don't get me wrong, I care about my students and my job, but I will always put my husband first.

So tonight, my bad will stay in my car, and when my husband gets home from class we will spend some time together. I guess technically I could do the work before he gets home, but I have decided to be lazy until then! I need it after 8 hours with my crazy kids!

Sunday, September 26, 2010

Fall is in the Air

It is officially Fall, and today finally feels like it! After temperatures in the 90's this past week, I never thought summer would be over. However, today I woke up to 70 degrees and overcast. I'll take it!

We did some major cleaning in the house, and I cleaned up outside. All of the weeds are gone, along with the bushes trimmed! I am going to pick up some Mums this week that we ordered, and then my Mom and I are going to the Pumpkin patch next weekend!

In my entire life, I have never gone to an actual pumpkin patch to pick pumpkins. I have always picked them up in roadside stands, and sometimes even Wal-Mart! I am so excited it's kind of ridiculous. They even have rides out to the apple orchard to pick apples!

Now if I can just get through this week!

Friday, September 24, 2010

The Civilian Side

Even though the National Guard can be called at a moments notice, and my husband spent almost 2 years of his life overseas, many members of the National Guard have civilian jobs. To me, their job is the hardest in the world. They have to go from being a soldier, defender of our freedom, back to a normal, civilian job, dealing with people who have no clue what being in the military is like. I have no idea how my husband did it.

Luckily, with the help of the ESGR, making the move from deployment back to civilian life is much easier. They work with civilian employers and make sure that rules and regulations are followed, and the rights of the deployed service member are carried out. There are many employers out there who really are great to deployed members of our military; sending them care packages, and organizing celebrations when they return. I wish that all employers would treat deployed service members with respect and support, but unfortunately they don't. Thankfully the ESGR is there to step in in case this happens.

The ESGR recently nominated it's top civilian employees. Out of 2,500 nominations, East Carolina University was chosen one of the top 15 to receive the 2010 Secretary of Defense Employer Support Freedom Award. I knew I loved this university for more then just it's football team and all the friends I made there!

East Carolina University




Thanks Robin for showing me this! Miss you!

Monday, September 20, 2010

Disappointed

I must say that today was the first time I was disappointed in Oprah. Today, she highlighted the new movie "Waiting for Superman: the Movement that Could Revolutionize Waiting for Superman."

I hate when movies like this are published. Are these people who did it even educators? At one point someone on the show said that if children are tracked based on performance, low performing students are placed with bad teachers.

Really?

Have you been in my classroom. I have low performing students, and I am NOT a bad teacher. A child from the show was quoted as saying, "I don't test well, so I would have been put in low classes with teachers who are safe because they have tenure, but don't really care about their job."

Yes, that may be true in THAT school, but not in mine. But because they picked this school, everyone will then have the worst perception of American schools. Do you really have any idea what we go through on a daily basis? We have kids who are homeless, parents are divorced and fighting over the kid, abused children, the list could go on and on. And despite ALL of this I TEACH, and I expect that EVERY child can learn. Bill Gates said on the program that outside of 'special' schools, there is no achievement. Bulls***. Give me a break. Are there things we could all work on? OF COURSE, just like every other occupation out there.

Why don't they ever go to a school where things are going right, or find teachers who love their jobs? Instead they pick one school where only 32 out of 100 graduating seniors are prepared for college. Are there schools like this? YES, of course! I'm sure they don't mention the poverty level, or the gang activity or anything else American schools are dealing with OUTSIDE of the school.

Teachers have the hardest job in the world, and I challenge anyone to try my job for one week. Then you can stand outside and complain about public schools. We are the only occupation I know of that stay late, take work home at night and on weekends and don't get extra payment. Any other job would be billed for overtime. I'm not complaining about the amount of paperwork or the other crap I deal with because I LOVE my job. I just wish people actually realized what we did instead of just jumping on the bandwagon and bashing American education.

Saturday, September 11, 2010

We Will Never Forget


Today, my thoughts and prayers go out to the families, friends, and loved ones of those who lost a loved one on 9/11. I still remember that day 9 years ago. I was a senior in high school and at my senior internship at a local elementary school (I even knew then what I wanted to be when I grew up!) The teacher of the class came over and simply said, "They hit the twin towers." I had no idea what he meant and thought for sure it was a mistake. I tried to get online and see the news, but everyone in the world had the same idea, and I could only get a picture of the towers on a local website. I was shocked. I remember walking back into my high school to teachers crying, and watching the news on TV. It was unbelievable.

Today, I hope everyone takes a minute to remember those lives lost, and those still suffering. Also take a minute to remember those soldiers and families who are still fighting for and defending our freedom from those who try in vain to take our happiness and way of life.

I will never forget.

Monday, September 6, 2010

Endings and Beginnings

Well, yesterday marked the end of working at the restaurant! (Insert BIG cheer here) Of course it was a double, what a better way to send me on my way! Of course if they need me from time to time, I will go in. It is good money, I just can't do it every weekend with school and hockey.

Yesterday also marked the beginning of the ECU football season. When choosing which college I went to, I always wanted a BIG school with a good football program, and of course a good program for my major. As soon as I stepped foot on the campus I fell in love. The best part was their football team was actually pretty good. Of course, then I started to attend and the program was horrible for the four years I was there! As soon as I left, they started getting better with a new coach. This year, they are defending back to back Conference USA champs. I love every minute of it!

Because I went to a school pretty far away, and they aren't a Big 10 school, getting them on TV is hit or miss. However, because of the growing program, I am getting more and more games. Yesterday, because I worked, my loving husband DVRed the game and, of course, the DVR cut off the last 5 minutes of the game.

This is what I missed :

I need to better plan out the timing on the DVR. Either way, GO PIRATES. Oh, and did I mention it is the TOP PLAY on the ESPN Countdown?!



Tuesday, August 31, 2010

Presidential Speech

Most of the time, when the President gives a prime time speech, I channel surf trying to find one that his face isn't on! It's not that I don't like the guy (I voted for him, I admit it!) or that I don't want to hear what he has to say, I do. However, when you live in a household that has opposing political parties, many speeches turn into debates and then full out arguments. It's happened more then once!

Tonight, however, we both actually listened to the President's speech about Iraq. For the first five minutes, the President thanked the troops and praised their performance in Iraq. I have mixed emotions about speeches like this from anyway, let alone the President. I guarantee more then half the country doesn't appreciate the fact that more then 100,000 families are without a loved one tonight. Or that they go about their business worrying about trivial things, while families worry about whether they will see their loved one again. I've posted this before, but I think it's worth posting again.

"The US Military is at war. America is at the mall."

It's true. Sadly. I was also not surprised when he announced he was sending more troops to Afghanistan. It was only a matter of time. I don't think that anyone, unless they have someone in the military, fully appreciates what the troops and their families go through, or the burden they bear. Even when the President says it in a speech, I don't know if people in America, non-military appreciate it. Meanwhile, when I hear that 44 members of a brigade gave their lives, my heart sinks and I get tears in my eyes because I was one of the lucky ones.

Even though I know it doens't happen, I hope that at least one person tonight actually LISTENED and maybe had a clearer understanding and appreciation for our military. Just one.

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Back to School, Back to School

Today was our first staff inservice day! I got to meet my fellow 4th grade teachers for a great lunch, then sit through boring meetings! YAY! But seriously, I did get a lot of work done in my classroom, and am thankful that we have all day in there tomorrow. I think my Mom is even coming in to help so that will be great.

Our hockey team is still coming together. We lost quite a bit of talent and I am afraid it is going to be a long year, but I hope I am proved wrong!

You will find me running around like crazy trying to get everything ready for my 21 students for the next week and a half. Wish me luck!

Friday, August 20, 2010

Exhausted!

Sorry for the lack of posting. Between practice at 7, getting up at 6, and work at night, this girl is exhausted! No practice for two days though, however I do work! At least there won't be an early morning wake up!

School starts next Wednesday, and I just got my class list. It looks like I am going to have a great year, with at least 5 students being little brothers and sisters of previous students. 11 boys and 10 girls, pretty even! I can't wait to get in my classroom and get it all set up.

Until then, however, I will be practicing, napping and working! BIG things happening around here!

Sunday, August 15, 2010

Oh My!

I can't believe today is August 15th, and TOMORROW I begin coaching hockey again! It is amazing how time flies! The coaches haven't been able to meet ahead of time, so guess what time we have to meet tomorrow......



6


AM

That's right. Practice starts at 7, and I have no idea how I am going to get up at 5:30. The head coach sent an email to us saying she will be there at 5:30, and we could meet then. Ummm, no thank you! 6 is early enough! Is the sun even up then?

Work at the restaurant is winding down, and I am thankful! I just got off of a double yesterday, and have another today. The money is amazing, but I will be happy to have my weekends back with my husband.

This is also our last full week of vacation! Teachers go back next Wednesday. I am anxious to get the list of my new class of 4th graders. All of the students have their placements, but I have yet to receive mine! I feel like a little kid waiting to find out who their teacher is! I love starting fresh with a class. Seeing the new folders and pencils, and name without eraser or pencil marks everywhere is somehow refreshing. Even though I do love summer, I am ready to start teaching again!

However, until then, you can bet I will enjoy my last days of summer. In between getting up at 6, and then working at night, of course!

Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Cleaning Queen

Well we got news today that our house is going to be showed again tomorrow, so my cleaning side has kicked into high gear! This will only be the third time we are showing it after listing in March! We still love this house, and aren't really in a rush since if we wait a year to start building we save around $9,000 in taxes! I don't mind waiting! However, if we sell we could save even more money! I'm not getting my hopes up, but say a little prayer anyway!

Friday, August 6, 2010

Happy Anniversary!

My parents have been married 33 years today! I really admire their relationship. They help one another and respect each other. Now don't get me wrong. I'm not one of those children who thinks their parents marriage has been perfect - it's not. But they have worked through their hard times and gained more love and respect for one another. Something everyone can admire.
Mom would hate me for putting this picture up but I can't find another! SORRY!

Thursday, August 5, 2010

Another One

Today, Michael and I attended another deployment ceremony for one of our friends. He will be leaving shortly for a year in Afghanistan, and we both pray that he stays safe and comes home to his family. He and Michael have known each other for awhile, and he was there when Michael came home for Iraq. My husband never shows any emotion, and while he may not say anything I am sure he worries in the back of his mind. I, on the other hand, have no problems showing emotions, but was able to hold it together today, thank goodness!

Singh, stay safe and come home soon! We still have to go that steakhouse!

Singh and Michael at Michael's homecoming ceremony.


When can I go to a homecoming ceremony instead?

Wednesday, August 4, 2010

August Already?

Last year I was so excited for August because my husband was going to be home the NEXT month! This summer however, it just means the end of summer is drawing closer. We will be back to school in exactly three weeks, and hockey starts in one and a half. Oh my!

Meanwhile my sleep schedule is completely thrown off! I have been falling asleep around 12 and sleeping until 10. Not only will that not be beneficial in three weeks, but my poor husband who gets up around 6 has been going to bed way too late! He is exhausted. I need to start forcing myself to start getting up around 8 so my schedule won't be so bad when school starts. Of course hockey will help with this because we practice at 7! I know, crazy!

I really would like to get some day trips in within the next week or so, just the husband and I. Our work schedules won't be cooperating with that though. I am still working until Labor day, even if it's just weekends once school starts, and Michael is still on orders until he starts coaching football. Oh well. As long as I get to see him for more then 30 minutes I will be ok!

What are your plans for the rest of the summer? Are you ready for fall?

Saturday, July 31, 2010

Taking Things for Granted

Michael has been home almost a year. Can you believe it? I can't? This time last year I was going through the hardest part of the deployment, thinking it would never get here, praying he came home safe, and then he did.

With all of the news coverage of celebrities and there disaster of a life and ridiculous behavior, it's hard to remember sometimes why we are here and to be thankful for everything we have. Every once in awhile I stop myself for a minute and look at my husband and remember how thankful I am to have him home, safe, mind and body. It is truly amazing.

With that being said, I saw this on a friends FB page and thought it was worthy of posting:

Can you believe the coverage being given to a spoiled 20-something year old Lindsey Lohan?

Here are a few 20 year olds worth knowing about:

Justin Allen, 23
Brett Linley, 29
Matthew Weikert, 29
Justus Bartett, 27
Dave Santos, 21
Chase Stanley, 21
Jesse Reed, 26
Matthew King, 23
Christopher Goeke, 23
Sheldon Tate, 27

They gave their lives in the service of their country this week.


Friday, July 30, 2010

4 Years Ago...

My husband made me the happiest girl in the world by asking me to marry him. We have always loved Disney World. My family and I went four or five times when I was little, so I was very happy when I found someone who had the same experiences as I did and love of Disney. This is the only place that makes me feel like a kid again and that anything is possible. How can you not be happy when you go there? Everyone is smiling, even adults, and kids are jumping up and down and anxiously awaiting a glimpse of Mickey. I.Love.It.

Back to the story....

We had a week long vacation planned to Disney after I graduated from ECU and he from OBC. We stayed at Shades of Green, the military resort down there that I highly recommend! We had attended a friends wedding about three weeks before and my friends kept telling Michael it would be a perfect place to propose. Little did I know, Michael had been planning this all along, but almost changed his mind because so many people kept bringing it up! Thank goodness he didn't.

It was our first night in the park, and we were down on the side of Cinderella's castle. It was hot as blazes, and I just wanted to go stand in line in air conditioning, plus we hadn't ridden anything yet! He insisted on taking pictures. He was standing behind me as I snapped photos of the castle, and when I turned around there he was with a ring in his hand. I can't exactly remember what he said, but most importantly I said yes!

(The castle is to the left of this picture. He didn't want to do it in front of everyone, and it was perfect because this is tucked away with a great view. When we walked down the three people that were there cleared out and it was just us!)

We then sat on a bench and called everyone. My parents already knew because he asked my dad for permission. We even had a couple who had been eating dinner across the water, saw what happened, and rushed down to congratulate us! We then had an amazing seven days together! It was absolutely perfect.

(Taken right after he proposed! We look so young...and HOT, sweaty hot of course!)

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Schedule Your Appointment!

One of my guilty pleasures is getting manicures and pedicures. I love it. Almost more then wine. Almost. It is one hour that I can sit back and relax in my massage chair while I get pampered. My feet and hands feel wonderful and look amazing when all is said and done.

Although I love this hour or so of relaxation, I don't like paying for it! Pedicures normally stay pretty for quite awhile. Manicures however, are another story. Between working at the restaurant, coaching field hockey and teaching, my nails are normally chipped by the next day. Not to mention, they are my real nails, which makes it harder for the polish to stay on, or so they say! I must admit that I am pretty cheap. I am one that goes into a store, picks up a few things and then talks myself out of all of them before I can even make it to the register. Don't get me wrong, in my small town, a manicure and pedicure doens't break the bank! I still don't like shelling out $40 of hard earned money when I think about the things I could buy in our new, yet to be built, house.

In my quest to save money, I have discovered Sally Hansen's manicure kit. I tried it previously, but the tip on the white polish was too thick and didn't do a very good job. The other day I was in the store and discovered this beauty

The precision tip pen is just as skinny as a pen, and makes getting an exact straight line pretty easy! Now I can do my manicure myself and touch it up whenever it gets messed up by my busy life. I. Love. It. I swear it looks better then even the salon does it.

This takes care of the manicure, I think I will still leave the pedicure to the professionals. I'm not that good, plus I like my feet rubbed! What girl doesn't?

Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Lions and Tigers and Bears, Oh My!

Ok, so there weren't any of the above, but there were some exotic animals! The other day I mentioned that the State Fair was in town. Normally there are the traditional animals that you would think of : cows, pigs, sheep, and chickens. So imagine my surprise when we strolled into a tent and found this -

Apparently this giraffe has even been in movies! You could buy carrots for $1 and he would eat them out of your hand. How he wasn't overfed throughout the day I can't tell you, but it was pretty cool! In the same tent, they also had monkeys, a ram and these -


Goats and llamas! There were probably 15 in a cage; mostly little ones, but two big ones like the one Michael is feeding below. You could buy pellets and feed them. They went CRAZY! Climbing over one another and pushing each other out of the way. Michael tried in vain to feed the little guys, but the bigger ones kept winning out. Poor things!


I didn't know the fair could be so interesting. I think I am going to try feeding the giraffe when we go back on Saturday for our concert. Wish me luck!

Saturday, July 24, 2010

Come on Out...

To the State Fair! It's the time of year when the funnel cakes are fried up, and rides are assembled (again), different acts come to play and some, umm, shall we say, interesting people, come out to take part in the festivities.



I always remember going to the fair, ever since I was little. We also made a point to head out there at least once in the ten days that it was here. I have to say the best part of the fair is the food. Everything from kettle corn, to ice cream, to fried snickers bars and corn dogs. I could never bring myself to get on the fair rides like all of the other kids though. The thought of them being disassembled and then assembled again every ten days or so made my stomach turn. How can that possible be safe?

My parents and I always liked walking around the different vendors, getting a bite to eat and then calling it a day. My husband's family, on the other hand, had a camper set up and would be there all week! Some people just absolutely love it! Don't get me wrong, I will visit at least once, and we have a concert to go to too later in the week, but there is no way I could be out there everyday! There are only so many pigs and cows you can see!

I have to say. There are some very interesting people that come out of the woodwork. There are the country kids who live for this time of year! They just love everything about it. I guess since my parents are from the city, I was never exposed to any of that, so I just don't get why it is so amazing.

Either way, the fair is here, and I will at least get some kettle corn to eat!

Sunday, July 18, 2010

At a Loss

I have been having a hard time deciding what to write about lately. There isn't too much going on, while other things are harder to write about.

Michael and I have always wanted kids, and while his Mom has asked since we got married if I was pregnant, we decided to take it slow. We wanted to accomplish some things first, like our graduate degrees and building our house, and just be with each other. Well, we both have our degrees. In fact, we each have two, while I am halfway to a third Master's and our house, while it isn't being built, our current house is up for sale, and we have purchased land. We knew that we wanted to do all of this first, because when we do have children I want to spend as much time with them as possible. We also needed to wait until after our last vacation because frankly, I wanted to drink! Selfish, I know. Sorry.

I have realized there is never perfect timing for a baby, and with that said let the 'practice' begin! As stated before, I am a perfectionist. When I want to do something I research it and plan it out to the finest detail. I have done all of this for months, so when that first test came back NOT, I was very upset. I have no idea why. I know that it could take months to be successful, but I was so upset. We have friends who have tried for two years, and unsuccessfully tried IVF last month, so why was I sad after one time? Ridiculous. I know I need to just relax, otherwise the stress will be detrimental. This is one time my pre-planning, Type A personality may not be beneficial! I guess we can at least have fun trying right?

We also found out today that a fellow teacher in Michael's school has Stage 4 cancer throughout her body. She has a 4 year old and a 1 year old. It is heartbreaking. How can such bad things happen to such good people?

Cherish every moment.

Saturday, July 10, 2010

How Old are You?

I love my career : teaching. I dislike my summer job : waitress. I have had a summer job since I can remember - probably since the age of 14 when I helped my mom coach hockey for little kids. Throughout high school, I worked in an office during secretarial jobs for the school district, and then during college I took a job waiting tables at the beach. It was convenient to our beach house and I made pretty good money.

I always said that when I started teaching my days of a summer job would be over. I thought about doing summer school, and figured that was a good way to make a little extra money and not work all summer since it would be over in July. Not to mention it was over at 12pm and we had Friday's off.

Then my first year of teaching, there were budget cuts and talks of cutting teachers. Being a first year teacher and not having job security, I panicked. I immediately went to a local restaurant that a good friend had worked at for years. I figured if there were going to be cuts and, God forbid, I couldn't find another teaching job, I would at least be making money until an opportunity came along.

Needless to say, I did NOT lose my job, but did keep my restaurant job to make extra money. The money was amazing, better then those college days and it is only 5 minutes away. After three summers, I am tired of it. Last summer I was all for it. Michael was away, it kept me busy and I wanted to make as much money for our house as possible. This summer, he is home and I am over the drama that is the restaurant.

Managers act like they're 7 so how can I respect them? One manager runs around untying aprons on waitresses. The communication is horrible. For example, the owner had my SIL text me to see if I could hostess. I said I could not due to previous plans. I KNOW she told him. The day arrived when I was 'supposed' to be there, and he threw a fit when I didn't show. BECAUSE I ALREADY TOLD HIM I COULDN'T. Then when I arrived the next day he wouldn't even talk to me or say my name. REALLY? How old are you? Are you running a business?

I really love the money, who can complain about that? However, I don't have the patience to deal with people who are immature and incompetent. I think the days of summer jobs is coming to a close for me. I wanted to work my a** off until we had kids. Accomplish as much as possible and make as much money so when we did have children I can spend all of my time with them. Now, regardless of whether we have kids or not next summer, my days of holding a summer job are over!

For now, I will plaster a smile on my face and deal with it and think of the money, and ignore everyone else!